If my H had sent me flowers I'd have found out about the A much sooner. That was the one thing he made clear from the start - don't expect flowers as he doesn't do flowers.
He made his bed, let him lie in it. I've made my decision and even if he was to come crawling back, I'm not changing my mind. I don't know where I'll be this time next year but I do know that it won't be with my H. That is one certainty in my life .
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
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