In my younger years, I sent my first W flowers at her office. She gave them away one at a time for other people to put on their desks, saying they were from her ex. We hadn't even started D.
My brother and his W have been dragging out D for financial reasons. I have a feeling she might was to remarry because he said his W asked for a D for Christmas. LOL. As for him, he's got a R going with a woman who's against divorce for religious reasons, but that overpowers her problems with adultery, obviously. What a tangled web.