Hi Pud I agree with mr cas here It was one of the things I got taught in IC and that was fortune telling meaning "what if this happened?" and "what if that happens?". I know how you must be feeling though and it's not nice It's almost like a panic attack everytime he goes out. I remember that feeling well when my H was still living here. I can't remember if I've read this on your sitch or not, but have you ever given him an ultimatum? Has he got somewhere to go if he does get chucked out? This stopped my H from moving out sooner, but it didn't stop the MLC going full steam ahead. Although it was upsetting when he did finally move out, I'm at peace now without him
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!