Being sick doesn't help dealing with any of this cr@p too Rosa. I'm sorry you feel sick, I hope you get better soon. But you were burning the candle at both ends, so I'm not surprised!
I would wait on a response until you feel a bit better. Or write it out and then think on it.
Feel better db sister.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.