Finding nuggets of gold on this Great Big Hill

[Pudmuddle]

So I was getting ready to leave the house and H asked if I was going somewhere. I said Yeah I have some things I need to do. He said Oh when will you be back? I said I don't know. He then said Well I will be gone later. I said Yeah I expected that, have fun. He then said Well S and I are going to an Avalanche game on Tuesday. I said Great! and walked out the door. Honestly I couldn't get out of there fast enough. I didn't want to hear his shi!t.

If he is taking OW Tuesday night and introducing our S I will be very upset. This is what he tried to do before when he was with previous OW years ago. I am thinking of packing all his clothes in suitcases and saying don't bother coming back while he is out. I know, I know, don't be upset by his actions but I am still working on that and at least I didn't show it to him this time. I don't want him to come back if he cannot treat me with respect and treat our marriage like a marriage. This man needs to move out! Thoughts?