Marc,

It doesn't so much matter what type of r they were having if it's in the past...what matters is their ability to be open and honest about it. (and who knows maybe my h is being honest about it I'll never know)

Mooka,

for what it's worth, during my seperation without knowing about "the power of the praying wife" or any other "special" prayers I found myself asking god to help h find his peace on a regular basis and for myself the strength to make it through.

Like Sue I am no preacher however if you have any type of faith at all it is important that your prayers not be of self fullfillment.

Sue is proof that patience pays...but all should know that their is a difference between blind hope and patience.

LL