Thanks guys. OM ia definetly out of the picture. She blew up his world apprently...talked to the girl he cheated on/with, as well as OMs mother. Told her about her sons cheating an std and everything.

W told me to block OM number from my phone because he will call me to start some sh!t. I told her I bet you he won't call me. People like that are cowards. No calls yet and its been 48 hours.

She just had another meltdown with more I'm sorries and sobbing. I still haven't responded. I smile, genuinely but no mention of the apologies being enough. Let her stew in it for a while.

I have an issue for new years. Last year i stayed home while D3 slept. Watched fireworks on tv on my own and she wenr to stay with OM. It also happens to be my birthday at midnight so its a biiig deal...

I promised myseld a year ago that i would never again let that happen. So I had plans with some friends for this year. Nothing extravagant, just going to a house party...

So i think you all seee the problem already. We spent 13 new years/birthday together and one apart. I can't be that jerk and leave her to spend it alone. What do I do?


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017