Sue, Thanks so much for finding my post and responding. Your advice is so meaningful, as you have waded through all of this for a long time and are now climbing the uphill slope. Enjoy the views and pleasant moments along the way up.
I totally agree with T2 and LL regarding your H's coming clean and being so sincerely honest and vunerable. That's a wonderful sign....even if it brings up some pain and anger from the past. Re-reading DR was very, very smart....you have the tools at your disposal to put it all in perspective.
I'm kind of having a rough day today. ....come back to my post when you get a chance..
Thanks and keep on going up that mountain top....you are doing so well. Mooka
By the way, I'm praying your prayer for my H's happiness, with or without me....and that God will somehow, someday soften his heart so he can see his way.....he is LOST right now.
