Ok my question is this. With the fact that the H wants to rebuild the M why is it so important to know what type of R they were having while they were gone? 2 years is a looooong time to be trying to work on the R. Does it change the way you feel about saving your M or your WAS?
Isn't it just good enough to have them back or on their way back? I currently wonder if my W has replaced me already only because then that would let me know if there is anything to keep holding on to or not. But if she came back right now, I know that I would take her back... but I wonder myself if confession is really good for the soul.
I know that everytime her cell phone would ring, I would be questioning in my mind who it was. The first time she was late from work I would wonder what she was up to.... etc. But why do we think like that? Why is it just not good enough that they are back? I do believe that all things are revealed in time and when we are REALLY ready for them to be.
But that is just my question. I am both happy and jealous of you at the same time and wish you the best!
