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[mj0221]

Ambi,
I am so sorry to read of the latest updates. I agree with job though. First I would not contact him anymore. There is no reasoning with him right now and also file for support. Since we discussed this on my thread and I'm a little ahead of you by a few months my H did the exact thing only we weren't in debt but I did what you did and kept at him trying to reason with him. I finally stopped and he calmed down and continued paying everything. He did eventually file just recently but he has continued to pay me.

Also about the house, I know how much you really wanted to stay in the house and how infuriating it is what all this has caused. What Job said may be the best thing, bankruptcy. Of course he may have already checked into that. I personally would only contact him to ask about that and keep it short and to the point.

I KNOW how hard it is not to call, email or text when he throws this stuff at you. I remember that group of days. I still have the emails to show for it and it got me nowhere and got him farther away from reality. You can do this.