A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

[Pudmuddle]

2t, I'm sorry he is doing this now. I know it is extremely difficult but you need to let him go. Let him take this journey. He is thinking all of these other things are going to make him happy. Let him experience that and come to the conclusion on his own that it is not these things that will make him truly happy inside.

I agree with AJ, make a new tradition for yourself and find some friends who love and adore you and spend more time with them. Find some adventure and fun in your own world. It hurts a lot at first not to be with the one you want to be with, but distractions with friends do help for a bit.

Please don't be hard on yourself for what he is doing, it's not you.

Take care 2t and please post more so we know you are ok. We are here to love and support you.