Thank you of your post. Yes I do work and I could do it in another country ( I am a college counsellor and business teacher). If I were to move h would see much less of the kids than he does now. He made the decision to move geographical locations and create this distance and I don't know if I could do that to the kids once again ... Like I mentioned before to me- that would happen when I have left h in the past and started to look for a new partner and father figure for the kids. H would become the 'see them at Christmas and maybe in the summer' kind of dad.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
