You could have written my story.

I see how my husband feels and it breaks my heart.

I know it takes two, but in you I see so much of me it is scary, because I absolutely know that was me with the bed inflator, with the 'no sex', with the expectation.

A couple of your points I thought "Wow...what a ..." and then I realized it was me.

Thank you. You can't begin to understand the clarity you've brought to my life today by sharing this, and I know that wasn't the point.

I have grown a lot this past year, as I am sure you are doing as well.

To be reminded of my behaviour pre BD was a gift.

Thank you once again (((Ambi)))