I'm going to be very honest w/you...stop trying to rationalize w/him.
I did not respond to his comments. I was just narrating my perception for the board.
Right now I'm trying to figure out what to do. I have the choice to have the support filed and to do that I have to choke up a retainer. I still have to pay 400. to the last attorney, and then it would be more to continue.
Both have told me NOT to jump into a job...it would hurt the support and trap me. I could suggest he go ahead and start with the house .
For even if it goes into foreclosure, it will by me some finding a place time and release him of the 3,000. a month. If I do this, I cannot take in kids or a boarder.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay