LOL! That's why I usually don't ask because sometimes God has a wicked sense of humor!

OK I know we're supposed to validate when they are complaining but I'm having a hard time feeling compassion for H and his money woes. I get rambling text about how he has no money and I respond 'sorry' when I want to say 'you wanted this' and '[censored] to be you'. Anyone have any good neutral responses?

H-44
Me-43
D9
T-13 years
M-12 years
BD-8/21/13
Sep- 11/19/13
D in process