I agree w/uR, this is a great list. The one thing missing will come in time...more patience is needed. Your w has been making progress right along and the new year is right around the corner and I do think that there will be good changes comes your way in 2014. Just be patient a little longer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.