busting, I am going to read above thread too. I think my h has his moments of niceness because I am nice to him. I think he does feel sad/bad about the turmoil he has caused(not enough though to do anything about it) I have noticed when he is nice he will quickly backtrack so as not to give me any hope.

Do you work in country where you presently live?
Is your job something that you could do if you were to say move to Europe or another place?

If you and kids move to another place, how much more or less would your h see them?

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13