Your anger is completely justified. Bad news, you probably have to temper it like you had to with the desperate chasing of WAS.
Make no serious decisions. Take time to settle you emotions, have communication with your W and as you both heal, you'll see if she's sucking up as some sort of regret against the OM or if she's properly committing to the M…and you have to see if you still want R…Best of luck to you, this is a suck @$$ situation.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
