great news...h wants m to work!!!

[holdingon]

Hoping,
Did your H finally say what gave him the courage and the push to come off the train? I feel like my H has no courage to face his demons, to face me and admit what he has done, or not admit it, but just make the turn.

When I talk to my H, he DOES NOT seem happy. He seems to be spending time doing things with him male friends and watching a lot of sports on TV... he tells me these things sometimes. But the past week he seems distant.

I look at your sitch and I am happy for you... but the timeframe scares me... I have been doing this for a year, and my H has been out of the house for 8 months... and to wonder if I am going to do this for another year, I feel like I do not have the strength... However, there is no other path to take.

I am sorry to hijack your thread, Hope. I am just hoping you can shed some light and help keep my hope alive.

You said in December that you were so tired, and did not know what to do. I know exactly what you are talking about.

I pray, pray, pray... I pray for my H. My walk with the Lord is so much stronger than ever before, and that is what I have, and it is wonderful.

Any light you can shine on my situation would be wonderful.