OMs, cycling, cakes and confusion Oh my Lord ;)

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Agreed. I'm starting to feel that anger stage that i had read about that occurs when the lbs chase is over and the WAS starts showing interest.

So my W went to spend some time with her friends to get her mind of things. When she came home just now, I had a splitting headache.

She said down and asked me 'so is there anything you want to ask me, or want me to tell you about what happened? I told that my head is pounding and I can't really even get up off the couch.

She went and got me a pillow, a cover, headache medicine and a head tie to put pressure on my temples (great trick I taught her).

After she got me all set up on the couch, she said in a kissing butt type of voice... 'did you see my facebook post?'. I said what post? She said 'the one i just posted on your page. When I checked, it said happy early birthday. Its going to be a good one

I told her thanks and clicked like on the post and then tot back to laying down. Didnt say much else really.

Ten minutes later I hear her heavy breathing on the other couch and it turns out she fell asleep. She's so edhausted emotionally and physically that she fell asleep in the same clothes she had gone out in.
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My anger coming on strong is normal right? As I feel some pursuit its bringing on feelings of me being second choice. She will have to work for it. I need proof that I'm not second. Is that wrong? .

To anyone reading this, please refer to my previous post ror the updated sitch.