OMs, cycling, cakes and confusion Oh my Lord ;)

[Accuray]

Your W has just gone through a traumatic change in her situation and is very emotional as a result. I think you handled it well by being friendly but not too available. I would not make any invitations or overtures. Just do more of the same until she works through her crisis. You don't want to be her rebound man and then see her spring off again. Just hold tight and keep doing what you're doing.

My two cents is that she should be the one asking to come back, versus you inviting her, and there should be conditions.

Acc