Tensions are rising here as well. Wife announced she was going to move out yesterday....as soon as she finds a place. She got into an argument with my 18y son, basically told him he would have to leave if they didn't have a discussion about some subject. I intervened which did not make her happy.
They are like two mountain goats that just keep ramming their heads together until someone collapses. I suggested they both take 20 minutes and then talk again. During that twenty minutes I talked to my son about respecting his mother. I talked to my wife that perhaps she could change a bit in the way she talks to him (more like a 12 year old then a 18 year old). And, that if they both changed their mode of arguing, perhaps it would be more productive.
She is one of the most stubborn people i know. Has to be right. Up to now i have been seeing how she needs space. I am starting to wonder if i need the space as well..... Perhaps we have that in common BH! I certainly confess how i am at least 50% responsible for our situation......I don't think she ponders that at all, just wants out.
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6
