Does he pay you anything? H says he's happy also. One thing I have learned that I didn't know early on is yes my daughter was hurt and still is, she went to counseling and still goes once a month, but she is very strong....I am learning so much from her actually. She has a friend who's dad died when she was 2 and mom never remarried so D11 sees we can have a life and move on. Sometimes I think my daughters are stronger than me.

I hear your sons talk about going to their dads and as much as they don't like hearing about the ow they seem to also be doing fairly well. If they can do it we have to show them we can.

And yes your H....has checked out or something. No job, unemployment or anything.....don't let him get to you. I might would rather mine be broke. Mine has tons of money now because he doesn't pay for our household expenses. He just has a small apartment so it kills me knowing I'm struggling while he keeps all that money.

Oh and AJ, I have read Raine's threads I thought from start to present. Tired, you should read if you have not.


M:40 H:42
M: 12yrs
BD: 2/1/13
H moved out: 2/22/13
D: 11
Divorce started 11/13