Scott, I thank you for the compliment but my "best" comes from my experience of making about every screw-up possible in a R blushand finally realizing that I was the one who needed to change.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss