I'm still in no rush to get a D either. I'm leaving that to H. I've a friend who's been living with someone else for the past 5 years or so and she's still not D! She says it costs too much. The only reason I would want a D would be if I planned to remarry and as that is not on the cards then I'm prepared to wait a while Of course H may want to marry, though I think the EA/PA has fizzled out now! Not 100% sure on that, I've just got the impression that it has. I can't see her wanting someone who's in debt and depressed in her life.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Of course H may want to marry, though I think the EA/PA has fizzled out now! Not 100% sure on that, I've just got the impression that it has. I can't see her wanting someone who's in debt and depressed in her life.