I know you were joking TTD smile ; there are others reading these threads that might not though. I agree, flirting is fine (it's good for the PMA) as long as both parties know it is only flirting; so is dreaming LOL smile . But that will be as far as anything goes for now.

H has 6 months before he can actually obtain a D unless he pushes for it quicker, but he knows that will mean having me file on grounds of adultery and naming OW which he has specifically said he doesn't want. The ball on a D remains in his court.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks