ScottCat, coming from me I know how hard GAL is. I was stuck in a smallish country town with no nightlife or daylife.
Some GAL activities:
* Take your sons somewhere different - new playground etc
* Get them into a sport to try - gymnastics, soccer
* Learn to play a musical instrument - I learnt guitar
* Bible study - good idea
* Is there a mens club - we had a meet up every 2 months
* Have you checked out the web for local stuff - don't know if you have it anywhere else, but meetup.com - no it's not a singles site
* Try a new sport yourself - run, go to the gym, do aerobics, swim

I would suggest things with the boys without the W, and things for yourself with the W watching the boys.

Fly: your advise was fine with me.

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.