Actually Job, I did. The money if it was kept in a separate account, recorded in a ledger and then used to pay towards maintaining the joint home, is fine. I wouldn't want to comingle funds, so I would have an account just for that. An account for my future job, and then the checking and savings I have now.
Thanks for caring, I'm in full on protection mode.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay