The end of Limboland

[mj0221]

Tired...what your boys said my girls would be shocked....me not. D11 doesn't know anything about ow. Really none of us do. We can only speculate. I talk more to D21 because he isn't her dad, even though she still considered him dad#2, and she's and adult and can understand what's going on. I think H is waiting until D is finalized to come out with ow because it's someone I know.

Aj...I get the MLC but I don't. I feel like all I've done for months is research it. I'm a researcher and analyzer. Yeah I know, not good in a situation like this. You are spot on saying it stops when I say it stops. I HAVE figured that out but am still having trouble implementing it all the time. It's really not about contacting him.....yes I am fully aware of the contacting him for doing something stupid then him turning it around to make me look crazy bit. That I am being very watchful of as far as if this goes to court.

I will go days, weeks doing great. Then one little thing will come up and I will fall apart. Like getting the papers back the day after Christmas. I was first emotional for getting them back that day, then it all went downhill. I always have a trigger.

Did you answer this already? I need to go back and look. I know you said ex still pulls the same little things with you but as far as feeling free/detached, does it feel better when the divorce process is over?