Sue....you really don't know me, but I've followed your sitch over the past 6+ months....you commented on my sitch last summer. I am thrilled for you.....YOU ARE GETTING WANT YOU'VE WANTED from day one! All you DBing is paying off big time. Great encouragement for the rest of us.
I am in a similiar sitch...married 24 yrs, 2 kids in college, etc....moved here 3 years ago....new co-worker after my H. Visit my sitch sometime....when you have time...but put all your energies right now into your own M....YEAH SUE...your are in inspiration to us all.