Hey J, I know you hate seeing your W like this, it has to be painful to watch. My comment is that from a person's view who has been like this and treated my H badly too during this time, I would have given anything if he had hugged me like that even when I didn't want him too and I felt awful. Him showing his support when I was so awful and down about myself would have felt amazing to know someone supported me even in my darkest times. I would have known that he supported me no matter what. That's how I would have felt, and I can't say the same for her, but I though I would let you know that. I thought it was a good thing.
Knowing you can't do anything for her is the step towards letting her find her way and healing herself. Hugs to ya.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
