Back Again!!

[mj0221]

I don't know how to copy and paste from previous posts yet so I will refer to one of your earlier posts.....I had to laugh at the comment of him expecting to divorce a few years then getting back together. My H doesn't do that so I can't relate on that. He sounds like he loves to keep you hanging on and I can see why it would really be hard for you to hear those things while trying to detach and heal.

I'm sorry the kids had to deal with H and his girlfriends. Then seeing him show up the next morning in the the same clothes. Sometimes I HAVE learned to roll my eyes to myself because I realize the things they do are CRAZY.

I know they are the messed up ones but it IS so difficult to not get sucked in to their antics and yours is definitely trying to keep doing that.

I feel like all I do work and take her to gymnastics. I do though have a group of friends from gymnastics, gym moms, who we go out to eat each week. We also hang out together every week because we are at the gym for many hours a week, however they are all married and stay at home moms. I signed up for a meetup group in another city because there wasn't one in mine but haven't gotten the courage to go yet. The support thing is also my downfall.

I did find a one time divorce class at another church in December that I attended. It was great. They have the divorce care class starting in jan. I would love to do it but it's the one night we don't have gymnastics. Find something and start small. I don't about you but I used to be the social one and hubby was the non social. In the past couple years I have become very private.....depression I'm sure so I need baby steps to get out and meet people.