Jon,

I have followed your entire thread from the beginning and am so glad you have made it this far.

How did the Christmas Holidays go?

Have you taken that suggestion to read tbe 5 Love Languages book yet?

You both need to work continuously on meeting each others most important Emotional Needs. That questionnaire can be found on another site if you search for it.

Please keep posting. It's good to read about someone on the way towards a Recovered Marriage.

AITL

Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012