Me and my son went out today and had a bit of lunch in town. I saw my gay friend and he seemed very tired and low. Someone he works with says he's about 33% better today, but he's still not himself. I've started to notice now since it's been pointed out to me and it's hard to act as if everything is normal. I met a couple of people I know in town and one of them said it's a shame it's not worked out for you and your H. someone else who I had told that I've given up on him said that it was a shame. You're damned if you do and your damned if you don't, lol. I'm sure my parents will be delighted, but I'm not telling them unless I meet someone else. Can you imagine how much they will gloat and I will undoubtedly get I told you so's and telling me yet again how bad he was for me. I may have stood down from this m, but we're still friends and it still hurts when they talk about my H like they do. You can't dismiss 21 years of M in a blink of an eye.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
