Well he can't lie forever, he will mess up at some point. I agree, he is trying to justify his actions with the OW by telling everyone that it's ok because he's d. Yu are probably the b**ch in this M, he does it to make himself look right in people's eyes. My H is the same, he hates it if I tell people the truth as it makes him look like the bad guy. I can't lie as eventually the truth comes out. I did lie to my parents on the day H left, but that was to protect me from getting told off for not telling them sooner. Well, you may as well go out now and act as if you are D, lol. I hope you're ok about it and that it didn't upset you.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
