I am SO over whelmed by the great support and I am at a loss for words...and the tears are wrecking my face, and I am 10 min late for work!!!!!...but Thank you...I will make the time to respond...my days here are not over just because things look good...without all of you, my m would not be on the right track..

So..I will be back..thank you,Deb for the links..did I have that many!!???

I will close with a few things,and that is dbing is certainly about saving your m,but more about finding and saving yourself...I also have found great things in my journey with God..and I know that is not for everyone..and I am not going to ever be someone who "preaches" that, but it has been an important part of this process..

Again..many,many thanks

Sue

P.s....did not say much about last night, but the new,"old" h has gotten off the "train" (as he put it)of destruction and denial,and realizes how hurtful and wrong he has been.
More later...