I'm not sure what to say, my advice must be either poorly communicated or being taken completely taken the wrong way, which would also be my fault. So I apologize.
I'm not sure where anyone's advice was coming off as dishonorable, undignified or disrespectful or have a vindictive "So there" attitude.
It was just to detach and GAL. I thought we were only talking about ONE night out? Not a full agenda on co-parenting, which this has now been turned into.
Some how I think the whole cart has been put before the horse.
My only advice now would be to sloooooo downnnnnn. Many things are going to be changing, some good, some bad, some indifferent. She's going to be all over the place for a while, so careful with too many plans. Plans are great when your detached enough to roll with the punches, I just don't think your there yet.
