Yea...makes sense...funny though, my H says some of those things to me and as if I am the one to blame. He leaves me vm bout caring for me, wishing me well...yada yada. I am the one texting and arguing with him but he really is the one that left and stuck me in this mess. I take some responsibility but he drags me in all the time. He acts as if he wants nothing to do with me then calls me and asks me if I miss him. Tells me he loves me. Says we will get back in a few years. Those are the things I need to detach from. Those are the little threads that keep me hanging.
I will try and make baby steps. Going to try and join some activities, figure out who I am and maybe go to a support meeting to get my head in the right place. I know we will never be together so looking back is pointless.
Glad you had a nice holiday!! It might seem as if I am only thinking about myself but I am not. I hope you are doing well and I appreciate your help with everything.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
