Moths have of way of coming inside homes and facilities, no matter what the climate is. You don't even realize they've come in until they've eaten holes in your sweaters coats, rugs, etc. Silver fish are just as bad...but at least you can see them better than moths!

I agree w/the advice you've been given...get a job that is full time and pays well. You don't want to go w/something that pays nickels and dimes. However, you are going to need something to help you out if he continues to only pay you so much and then reduces that amount later on.

I agree w/BklynMom...your h will blame you until the cows come home because he can't face himself and he needs to find ways to justify why he's gone and done the things he's done. Don't buy into that BS.

I'm very happy that you and you D had a wonderful time last night. You both needed to have some fun. I hope she'll continue to participate in it w/you or on her own.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.