I read the links a long time ago but I think it is probably a good idea to go back and reread it again.

Hanging on to the anger is the part I struggle with. You can probably sense that from my tone. How long did it take you to move on with all this and detach? I guess that is the hardest part?

me-42
H-41
S-12
S-8
M-15 yr
f/o bout OW- 11-29-12
H moved out 10-31-13
Filed for divorce 12-27-13
D- 10-21-14