Well, kids came home from dads. He told me he had a job interview on Fri night and they had to leave. Really?? Job interview on a Fri night. Then when I got them he was in jeans and a tshirt. Boys told me H has girls calling left and right and my S12 says his dad is dating all of them and cheating on all of them. Why should a 12 yr old even know this? Kids said H bought a sound machine while they were there and called some woman and said he bought it so she won't hear the snoring anymore. So much for the first big week with their father. I guess I need to get used to this. They also said that he told them he thinks we will reconcile in a few years. This is not the first time he has said this. I really don't know what he thinks. That we are going to stop being married, he will date a few years then come back when he is done running around and my doors will be open? I've already waited in limboland for 2 years.

Today, he showed up in the same clothes as last night and stopped in at 8AM to pick the kids up for breakfast. It seems as if he was coming back from wherever from last night. Ugh...I can't take much more!! I can't wait for the D to go through at this point.


me-42
H-41
S-12
S-8
M-15 yr
f/o bout OW- 11-29-12
H moved out 10-31-13
Filed for divorce 12-27-13
D- 10-21-14