The truth is your xH is not a functioning human adult so you need to be a super woman/mom/person for your kids.
It is wrong for your H to ignore your kids so why not say "oh so strange running into you guys should we sit together?" I know this is weird and fake but is it the best possible option? Does it show your kids how to make the best out of a bad stitch?
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13