Dear hoping, This is such great news! Congratulations! It is natural for you ot question what's happening right now. You have had to protect yourself from hurt so you started to tell yourself your marriage could not be saved. You were trying to come to terms with that reality. And all of a sudden, reality has shifted. I'm sure you're both euphoric, scared, uncertain, cautious and lots of other emotions as well. Honor these feelings, but at the same time, keep DBing. Now that your h realizes that the best thing in the world is you, you can start to have the marriage you've always dreamed of. Oh yes, and don't forget the hard work that will be necessary to keep things on track. Expect your emotions to continue to bounce around and don't be worried about it. Just go through it. We're rooting for you! Michele
