I don't know...just when i think things are going OK, something pops out of the blue that's hard to deal with.
I've been taking the kids to the local cinema to pass the time after xmas.
MIL gave me a cinema pass for Xmas and so tonight we went to see Water Mitty.
It played in a small, 150-seat cinema, and guess who was there too?
Kids saw their dad as we waited to go in. He was there with OW and sat just in front of us in the opposite row.
Kids evening was spoiled.
We could see OW doing lots of exaggerated 'hand talking' during the ads before the start of the movie.
Us all being there at the same time was just plain weird.
We've gone to this local cinema about 100 times as a family over the years. And now we sit opposite each other (him with his affair partner instead of his kids) and ignore each other.
Does anyone have any advice on how to handle this sort of weirdness??
We just ignored him and waited until they had gone before we left.
But it doesn't make it any easier for the kids.
There is their dad, who they hardly see any more, sitting 5 seats away watching the same movie with this home-wrecker.
