Ambivalent, There comes a time to say what is on your mind and you had your say last evening. You laid it all out on the line and he's now aware that you are in the know of some of the bills, etc. I do hope that he will be truthful w/you, but I think he'll stretch the truth a bit and not be totally honest w/you. I hope that I am wrong.
As for the clothing being eaten by moths...where the clothes put in garment bags w/moth balls or cedar chips? If they weren't, moths will have a field day w/those types of clothes. I'm very sorry that so many clothes were destroyed by those little bugs because they can do a lot of damage in a short time...I always use the moth balls versus flakes and if I have the time to find the cedar chips, I prefer them because they smell so much better.
Time will tell as to whether your h responds to your text message. He may take a day or so to think it over before responding. I hope he's honest w/you and will work w/you on the financial stuff.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
