I think sometimes your body tells you things and you have to listen.
I know in my case, the stress of everything g made me super immune woman lol!
I think when you don't say what you need to say, your body turns against itself. I am a believer In The mind body connection for sure.
Sometimes you just have to put it out there and use your DB techniques when the reply comes floating back.
A few weeks ago, H blew off communication with me in a situation where he should have communicated. I called him on it and said very bluntly that whatever our relationship was, I was worth more than being stood up.
He said he was blind sided, never thought blah blah and needed time to think about what I said. Well he never apologized or got back or acknowledged it again, but I felt darn good about that letter.
Sometimes you just have to do what you have to do.
