Coming Back To Life

[tigerlily78]

I would keep them. Even if you don't reconcile you may enjoy looking at them one day down the road when the pain of this all isn't so fresh in your mind and heart.

You can always get rid of them later, when you are sure what they mean to you or don't. But if you get rid of them now you can never get them back again if you change your mind and that would be awful. Don't make any big decisions when you are emotional, right?

Remember, at this point you are still doing some mind reading about what "stuff" he intends to take. Yes, it is probably wise to prepare yourself for him taking all of it, but he might not. Have you considered what you want to do or say if he doesn't take everything? In your expecting the worst, I hope you aren't setting yourself up to be taken off guard by other possible outcomes.