Just some perspective: my W told me in September how divorce was "setting her free", and she finally felt good to have her own life and freedom, and money (she got her first major job in 3 years), and so on.
Our divorce is dismissed, and I found out two weeks ago, she is heavily in debt, can't get enough hours, and in April when her credit runs out, her bills will be $900/mo more than what she makes. She is selling jewelry to try to make credit card payments, etc.
Again, just some perspective about the whole "freedom" crap.
