Tired,
Everything you said is correct. I say my H is living a secret life now but I have to wonder just how long he was living a secret life before. My IC has really focused on the point of asking me what good will that information do me now and what will I do with it. Because I told him I am so desperately trying to detach from him and getting out of this depression my counselor is trying his best to steer me in a more focused direction.

It's difficult though when these men know when to throw something at us at just the right time to put us off our healing.....at least me that is.

Thanks for stopping by.


M:40 H:42
M: 12yrs
BD: 2/1/13
H moved out: 2/22/13
D: 11
Divorce started 11/13