Originally Posted By: labug
When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade.:)

You are absolutely right. Make the best with what you have.
I love this quote! grin

Sometimes, I wish I could unlearn the things I have learned here. It's easier to hate and be bitter.
But Life is complicated. There's no easy path. Better to choose a path which forgives and loves. That's DB.

Originally Posted By: labug
Start practicing negotiating with XW now on little things. If you don't get what you want, try again the next time. Take it in small steps.

Will do.

Originally Posted By: labug
Over time, this R with your XW is gong to change, you really have control (unless you has a mental illness) of how that goes.

Hopefully so.
Thanks.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet